What would it take for you to quit a seven-figure job?
74-hour workweeks, perhaps? By 31, Khe Hy was a managing director at BlackRock — the youngest in the firm’s history. But by the end of his first decade on Wall Street, he was buckling under the pressure and sky-high expectations.
For Khe, his game plan had always been simple: if he earned enough money, he would gain status, and if he gained status, he would no longer feel like an outsider. Success, he assumed, would bring happiness.
However, he soon came to learn that the values by which he was living were not his own. At 33, his hair started falling out due to stress-related alopecia. Then, Khe became a father and his life snapped into perspective.
He decided to leave BlackRock and the security of his seven-figure salary. “I realized the riskier thing is my kid watching their dad be checked out and doing something just for money,” Khe told the writer Simone Stolzoff.
Now, he surfs every day, never misses a family dinner, and always puts his daughters to bed. |